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Peanut
07-15-2004, 10:25 AM
In honor of a woman, aged 45, who bought her clothing exclusively in the juniors department at our Last assignment, my dh and I call this outrageous show of tastelessness Her-last-name Syndrome. We have been seeing a LOT of it now that we are back on US soil again.

We have already "done" the would-you-let-your-child-wear-this side of today's "fashions" out there...now, turn it on it's ear. Assuming you had the body to successfully wear the low-slung, short-top, naval baring, pierced belly button flaunting, shave all the way down to there and then up to here stylesso prevalent in the juniors departments nowadays...would you? Or, do you feel, like me, that it just makes a woman of a "certain age" look like a clown clinging to a faded youth?

Remember, I am talking about an un-retouched, mother of two type, 45 year old person in great shape, physically, but unquestionably 45 years old, to look at her. I am NOT talking about the Hollywood celebrity 45 year old...the ones who are botoxed, spend 7 hours at the gym, tummy-tucked and face lifted into plasticene perfection we see in women like Demi Moore. That is a whole 'noter debate altogether. Just a well-maintained body of a certain age that still CAN fit into that stuff...should she?

I am all for voluntarily requesting age limits on shopping solely in the juniors department. Hey, good on ya that you can still find stuff to fit in that section of the store, but who is fooling who here? No one wants to see your stretchmarks ABOVE your waistband and accented by your belly-button ring. (No, a large sparkling simulated gemstone does NOT draw the eye away from those markings, BTW.) Do you enjoy seeing peri-menopausal women walking around in shortie t-shirts that say "Juicy" in pink glitter letters?

Shoot, ask for identification if need be to reinforce those age limits. At least request to see a photograph of the youth for whom you pretend to be buying!

Anyone else?

Mabel
07-15-2004, 10:30 AM
Nope, I heartily disagree. First of all, who are we to decide who can where what? WHO gets to decide that? Because I *certainly* don't want the stores dictating to me what I can and can't buy!
Second, it's impossible for me to find clothes anywhere else. I'm not even 5 ft tall, and very petite. I imagine I'm done growing lol, so please don't cut me from the one section I can buy clothes in :)
Third, what if you're buying for someone else?

Demona
07-15-2004, 10:34 AM
Within bounds of lawful decency people can wear what they like. I don't necessarily want to see teenagers in such skimpy clothing either, but I'm certainly not going to interfere with what they wear. I may find the look unattractive, but I can live with that.

Michele
07-15-2004, 10:54 AM
Well, I'm a hippy at heart so even with the perfect body the most outragous I'd get is probably a long tye died skirt and blouse. LOL

I don't like to see tweens, teens, 45 year olds or anyone for that matter in the sleazy clothes that are out there now. This society leaves NOTHING to the imagination.

That being said, I think if someone feels good in what they're wearing, more power to them.

Peanut
07-15-2004, 11:01 AM
... Assuming you had the body to successfully wear the low-slung, short-top, naval baring, pierced belly button flaunting, shave all the way down to there and then up to here stylesso prevalent in the juniors departments nowadays...would you? Or, do you feel, like me, that it just makes a woman of a "certain age" look like a clown clinging to a faded youth?
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Do you enjoy seeing peri-menopausal women walking around in shortie t-shirts that say "Juicy" in pink glitter letters?

Shoot, ask for identification if need be to reinforce those age limits. At least request to see a photograph of the youth for whom you pretend to be buying!

Anyone else?


Mabel, I'm not talking about tiny women like yourself who choose tastefully from the juniors section. This is a tongue-in-cheek "debate" about the age-appropriateness of examples as listed above. Stick to the original thread, silly as it may seem! Somehow I don't think you are walking around in a "Juicy" midi-T, and I KNOW you aren't 45 years old.

:weirdthre

Peanut
07-15-2004, 11:04 AM
Well, I'm a hippy at heart so even with the perfect body the most outragous I'd get is probably a long tye died skirt and blouse. LOL

I don't like to see tweens, teens, 45 year olds or anyone for that matter in the sleazy clothes that are out there now. This society leaves NOTHING to the imagination.

That being said, I think if someone feels good in what they're wearing, more power to them.

Wanna get together sometime, Michele?

I agree with you regarding the sleazy clothes comments, but don't you think a 45 year old in this stuff is pushing the envelope further than God intends? LOLOLOL! Is it still a "more power to them" thing if all of their friends are making gagging motions behind their backs and/or rolling their eyes?

Peanut
07-15-2004, 11:07 AM
Within bounds of lawful decency people can wear what they like. I don't necessarily want to see teenagers in such skimpy clothing either, but I'm certainly not going to interfere with what they wear. I may find the look unattractive, but I can live with that.

Oh, I agree with you, as well, Demona. There HAS to be comic relief in all facets of life...including fashion trends. We cannot alwasy rely on Bjork for our amusement!

Let's take this a step further...would you rather BE the unwitting Bjork, or prefer a tactful friend steer you out of the inapropriate sections of the store?

Michele
07-15-2004, 11:13 AM
Is it still a "more power to them" thing if all of their friends are making gagging motions behind their backs and/or rolling their eyes?

Then in my opinion it would be the friends' problem and lack of tact.

Peanut
07-15-2004, 11:27 AM
The specific woman in quaestion was merely an acquaintance, so it wasn't my place to say anything to her or to "gently and casually steer her to more flattering fashions". LOLOLOLOL!

kingclick
07-15-2004, 11:30 AM
Then in my opinion it would be the friends' problem and lack of tact.
Why is it a "lack of tact" to gag behind someones back. But it's not "lack of tact" to wear disguisting clothes that are offensive?

Does tact not apply to personal appearance anymore?

Val
07-16-2004, 09:27 AM
I have to say that I used to love short shorts and half tops before I had kids, and wore them into my late 20s. Sadly, I finally got back into my pre-kids size, put on my former favorite pair of short shorts and said, "I am just too old to wear this now." :( Someone else may look and feel great in it, but even though it fits well, I just feel a little too maternal to wear the "hotty" clothes anymore (though I still enjoy a good miniskirt if we are dressing up).

Never have and never would wear anything that said "Juicy" "Angel" "Hottie" or the like. :gag If someone else likes wearing that, more power to them, but it ain't me, babe.